Sometimes we hit a spot in life where we just feel like we are stuck in a rut.
I think I am close to that in a couple different areas. I need to re evaluate a couple things in my life that are causing unnecessary stress and worry that I really don't need to add to my already full plate.
How does one go about re evaluating things in their life? ??
I know for one thing I need to re do my workout and or diet because I have hit a plateau!
That I can easily work on.
But what about life's other trials and tribulations??
I know that I have to start within myself. I am about to get a degree for the first time, I am busy every day with a two year old and a four year old…
I am an Army wife close to having a husband decide what his next career move is…
I just need to make sure I know how to handle these things. I cannot make everyone happy, so I will now chose to focus on MY needs.
This is NEW to me. I have always put everyone first, and now I am deciding to put myself first.
This is going to take some time, but I think I can do it.
I am just tired of feeling under appreciated for everything that I do, and I have been putting my own needs and wants on the back burner for some time.
I know I cannot control the needs of the Army career, but I can control how I react to the changes. I can chose to be positive about things instead of negative.
Since I am a bit of a control freak, I probably will not get this idea down right away, but I need to continue to work on it until I find balance in my life.
Don't get me wrong, I am VERY blessed with what I have, I just need to fine tune my reactions to things and my priorities.
Well, that was enough of a rant I think :)
Until next time!
~C
Do you girl don't worry about the drama!! You got some handsome boys to worry about!
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